Growth

Ready to Listen

"Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath."
James 1:19

Reflection

We have two ears and only one mouth. Maybe that is a hint! Listening first and speaking second prevents almost every argument.

Prayer

Father, help me listen before I answer. Amen!

Talk about it as a family

  1. Why do you think we have two ears and one mouth?
  2. How does listening first prevent arguments?
  3. When is it hardest for you to stay calm?

5-minute activity

Play "pause before you speak": during dinner, everyone counts to three silently before answering a question. Talk about how it changed the conversation. Read James 1:19-20.

The story in the Bible

The Letter from JamesRead the illustrated story →

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